Sunday, June 26, 2011

Three. Years. Old.

Sweet Eden,

You've been blessing our lives in amazing ways for three whole years (plus nine months in my belly...). I can't believe what a big girl you are. You're a little person - with opinions, ideas, problem solving capabilities, an imagination (oh, an imagination!), and the sweetest little voice I've ever heard (even when you're saying things like "thay-at" - as I tell you daily, "that" is only one syllable, and I have no idea how you've gotten a southern twang when you've spent your entire life in New England!)

You love life. You bring such joy and laughter to our home! You love to run and play, kick your soccer ball with your Daddy, jump as high as you can, ride on your tricycle and scooter, and DANCE. Oh, how you love to DANCE. Just last week Daddy downloaded "Jump in the Line" by Harry Belafonte (which Daddy and I know as the song from the end of Beetlejuice) for you, and you go crazy when that is on. You love Pete Yorn and Jack Johnson, too. You jump and spin and wave your arms, and smile so big it's completely infectious. Before you know it we are all jumping and spinning and acting crazy. And loving every minute!

You also love art. You love to sit at your little table and do a "project" (aka a "pwojack") together. Paper, crayons, glue, scissors, paint - you love it all (and you're a girl after my own heart). One thing you and I do together a lot is sit and make cards for friends or family. You get a big kick out of it. You also recently got an easel with a chalkboard, white board, and place for paper to paint, and you've been going to town on that. You've made some pretty pieces of art we are thinking of framing. :) You can draw a very good circle, and a nearly-recognizable face (the mouth always ends up being a straight line across the chin, but hey, whatever). You can trace things really well, and you're learning to cut with scissors.

You talk like a grownup. I'm always amazed at how big you sound. You say things like "I don't think that's a very good idea" and "We have to be careful with paint, Mommy." You understand that there are degrees to things - you get that "a little bit" means something different that "a lot." Two words you are still working on understanding are "because" and "otherwise"; right now, sometimes you get them right, but more often you use them both to mean "but" or "and". Your running stream-of-consciousness commentary is often strung together with these words: "We have to be quiet because Leah is sleeping; otherwise the tree is really tall." Um, what?

You're becoming very independent too, and it would be sad except it is so sweet. You are 100% potty trained, and are getting to the point where you can almost go all by yourself. You can dress yourself a little bit, and you're pretty good at undressing. You get yourself in and out of bed, though at night you still want us to tuck you in after you wake up. You feel secure though; you understand that if you need us we're close by (we have a new video monitor and you say "If I need you I have to talk to the camera" ("cram-a")).


You are an amazing big sister. You LOVE Leah. You want to hug her and kiss her all the time, and often ask to burp her or hold her. You always cover her with a blanket when she is lying down, you let us know when she's upset and you try to comfort her. This week she had to go to the doctor's office and you kept telling her the doctor was nice, and when they had to put in a cathider to get a urine sample you gently rubbed her head and told her "it's ok." You still mostly call her "Weah" but you can get out "Leah" - though when you think too hard about it, it comes out "Wa-Leah". That's my favorite. :)

You're very sweet a lot of the time, but you are also three, and all that comes with being three. You have a major meltdown probably once a day, which involves going to time out and staying there (usually for at least 15-20 minutes, which seems WAY longer to EVERYONE) until you can calm down and stop crying and apologize for whatever it was that sent you there.

Your favorite things right now:
1. Color: ORANGE
2. Song (to sing): Jesus Loves Me (or any other words to that tune; you make up songs every day)
3. Breakfast: cereal. usually Special K Red Berries ("pwakes [flakes] with strawberries")
4. Food: crackers. (Triscuts)
5. TV show: Oswald and Yo Gabba Gabba. Probably Yo Gabba Gabba wins a head-to-head, but it would be close. (Daddy puts his thumb on the side of Yo Gabba Gabba because of the music...)
6. Game: Hide and Seek (though you still tell us where you are if we say, "Eeeeedennnn, where aaaaaarrrrre yoooooooouuuu?"). We are thankful you appear to be over the "It's raining on our heads" game, in which we constantly had to very quickly hide underneath covers or toys or in the closet, or otherwise cover our hair. It was fun while it lasted. :)

I love you sweet girl. Someone once told me that at 3 all of a sudden our babies become little people, and he was right - I can't believe what a little lady you're becoming, so quickly. I look at your sister and remember you being that little and it seems like yesterday. But I don't want to go back - I want you just as you are. Maybe sans a tantrum here or there, admittedly, but definitely who you are. I honestly wish I could record every little thing you do, so I can forever remember this moment in your life, because it is so, so, so precious.

Stay sweet my love, and keep growing so big and strong. Hugs and kisses and love all around you! Know you are deeply treasured by your Mama.

Love,
Mommy



Tuesday, June 14, 2011

WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!



Just a quick post to say the deal closed today, and we are now the proud owners of a slice of Massachusetts, including 4 shiny new keys and a big ol'e mortgage (which I drafted... :) How many people get to draft their own mortgages??).

We are so excited, but my anxiety about moving has just ramped up to a ridiculous fever pitch since (1) work has been getting pretty crazy; (2) my first baby is turning 3 tomorrow and her sweet birthday party is this weekend, along with the second-in-a-row busy weekend for Bryan; (3) our landlord has found tenants to move into our apartment, but they want to move in on Tuesday (a week from today (!)) so we are going to try to move and semi-unpack BEFORE Eden's party on Saturday (in 4 days (!)); (4) we have done basically no packing; and (5) we have a bunch of stuff (especially painting) to do at the condo before we can move in. Yikes!!

But.

We are homeowners. We no longer pay rent. That makes me smile every time.

(The deflated balloons are gone now. More pictures to follow when I have a second to breathe).

Sunday, June 05, 2011

Tidbits

Some VERY RANDOM thoughts somewhat related to this weekend:

1. We have a contract on the house! AHHHH! It's official: we're closing July 1, but we are moving in 3 weeks!!

2. I haven't had time to pack because I've been (a) enjoying my family and (b) working this weekend!! AHHHH!!! We're moving in 3 weeks!!

3. We need to find a home for our little Nino. Condo association has a no-pet policy. Anyone looking to adopt a cat?? AHHH!!! We're moving in 3 weeks!

4. Eden started singing a new (to us) song this weekend (to the tune of that B-I-N-G-O song about the dog): "I have a friend that we all know, and "We-ah" is her na-ame. Jump! Jump! We-ah! Jump! Jump! We-ah! Jump! Jump! We-ah! We're glad you came today!" She clearly learned it at daycare, because at first all the names were her friends from there. But it expanded to include our family, and I got a video on my phone of her singing it about Leah. It is incredibly cute and so grown up I can hardly stand it. My baby is almost three. (Actually, she turns three on the 15th, and then we're having her birthday party in just under 2 weeks, which will be awesome but takes out another day of packing - and did I mention we're moving in 3 weeks? AHHH!!)

5. We bought our first large appliances this weekend (washer and dryer). For some reason this freaks me out a little bit. (Maybe because? We're moving in 3 weeks! AHHHH!!!!)

6. I'm getting a cold. Actually I have a cold. Thought it was allergies (which I have been battling this spring but, weirdly, I did not have problems with until Miss Leah came along...?) but now I'm pretty convinced that cute little toddler brought home more than just songs from daycare. This is a TERRIBLE week to have a cold: an important meeting, a very important hearing, a deal closing, and about five or six other work-related things that are going to make sure I see very little of my bed. :( (Plus, you know, I need to start PACKING). Oh, such is life.

7. Despite having to work this weekend, still managed to spend a lot of time together with my 3 favorite people, including dinner tonight at my favorite restaurant in Harvard Square (oh, how I love Border Cafe... even if I do smell like it for forever afterwards...). Eden wanted to stop for ice cream too but somehow convinced herself that the scoop of sour cream on Daddy's plate was ice cream, and he gave her a couple of bites and she was happy. Weird kid. :)

That is all. :) Going to feed a baby and go to bed now. :)

Saturday, June 04, 2011

4-month stats

Leah's 4-month checkup by the numbers:

26.5: inches in length (99th percentile - WHAT?)
14 lb 13 oz: weight (75th percentile)
41: centimeters of head circumference (50th percentile)
2: number of shots given (plus one oral vaccine)
40: approximate number of seconds she cried after said shots.

Also the doc said we can start solids at any time because she's developmentally ready (she's eating around 30 ounces of breastmilk a day, she can hold her head up and sit supported very well, etc). We will probably still wait at least a few weeks before starting though. She doesn't always empty her bottles so I'm not sure she needs it quite yet. But we might use solids as a way to control her poop a little bit.

The end of the appointment is always reserved for the "here's what you can expect from her between now and the next time I see her" talk. But this time, she was baffled, because our little lady is already doing almost all of the 6 month developmental things (she rolls well both ways, giggles, sits unsupported momentarily, "swims" on her belly, grabs toys and brings them to her mouth, does a "raking" motion with her hands, etc). So she said be on the lookout for better sitting, possibly crawling (WHAT??), maybe even pulling up a little bit. Um, seriously? I'm really not ready to have a crawler yet! But wouldn't you know, two days later and she's starting to pull her knees underneath her. She's not pushing up yet from that position, but still. Yikes!

But. We're so happy she's happy and healthy and trucking right along! :) If that means crawling in a couple of months, so be it.